Recently, if any of you have peeled your attention to the
television like me, may have come across a revamp version of a music video
titled, “Home”, written by Dick Lee and originally performed by Kit Chan. http://www.thisishome.sg
Something about the music had the cogwheels in my mind churning, the warm
feeling in my heart blossoming, not just the patriotic emotions that it has
invoked within me but the notion that there is no place better than home. Or,
what exactly, is this concept of home?
To me, the thought of home is being in the company of my
family and close friends. Yet, due to other commitments in our lives, e.g.
work, education, personal aspirations or newfound relationships we have come to
see ourselves become separated. Though separated from us by the vast oceans and
continents, advances in technology have somewhat brought us closer. We rely
upon Facebook, MSN, Skype to chat with one another and to keep abreast of the
happenings. For some, blogging about our lives lend others to peek into our
private lives. However, everything pales in comparison to the gentle pat on the
back, hugs and listening ear of your loved ones. So, often do we take our
families and loved ones for granted, perhaps because we know that they are just
within reach.
In recent years, moments where I am faced with problems, the
people I would turn to are that of my family. However, this has not always been
the case… and for that I feel a tinge of guilt. I used to think that it would
be so wonderful if I lived on an island all by myself, without the care for the
world and people around me. I dread having to make small talk or conversations
with people for it means that I would have to share something personal and at
times to even deal with conflicts.
However, my perception has changed, as I get older with age.
I would like to think that it is wisdom through maturity or at least the
opportunity to learn from my clients and their families. Recently, my sister
moved back from overseas and moved in stay with me. Her presence at my home has
been a refreshing change for the house that used to be quiet whenever I
returned home from work is now filled with much bustling energy. In the past, I
would find myself heading out to chill with my friends or just huddled up on
the couch watching my TV shows. But now, things have changed. I look forward to
heading home to my loved ones for I can hear about their day. I guess the
concept of home differs for different people but in essence it revolves
being around people you care about and hold dear to, having that sense of
belonging and being able to show your vulnerable side without being judged.
For those who think that they are alone in this world, this
may seem a scary thought but truth is there is someone who cares about
you. Someone who is willing to listen to your cries for help… and most times,
it could be your family, friends or loved ones.
Much as I like the local piece of ‘Home’ another track of
the same title that brings much nostalgia and warmth to my heart is that by
Michael Bublé and Blake Shelton. Below music video is dedicated to my friends
and my big sister who are far away from home.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kkoT1nZOexY